>>13549028Before finding problem in others find and fix the problem in you. Right now I don't talk about you being black, I talk about your attitude, lifestyle, lifegoals, knowledge and experience. You don't even know yourself YET you want others to love and respect you. Reading your posts you sound like a young brat, get to know yourself girl, grow up in your head and stop dating man-children. There are some really good self-knowledge(?) trainers, or visit some forunetellers/profilers, they'll tell you about the stuff you need to fix within yourself.