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Women get off on power and status, and in the school, (where i assume you are in) the main asset is friendships. 100iq can naturally relate to most people, thus they have most friends, and most status. Outlier IQ is irrelevant as it is not rewarded in meaningfull way yet. Anything out of the norm is liability as it alienates the majority. Once you get out though, you can choose your circles freely, and congregate with other people like you. Friends are basically people who play status games together, so given you dont fail in some stupid way, higher iq lets you be with influential people who are admired by masses.
I would advise though, not to invest too much into the soulmate fantasy. males tend to be the ones that the nature does experiments to. It produces much less female weirdos, as one female can only give limited number or offspring. While the gap left by failed males can be filled by other males, as there are not nearly enough smart females for every male. So it would be much more realistic to settle for some bimbo with nice tits who loves you for the money or influence, than to fall for the muh soulmate meme
