>>12654929That‘s because we‘re not as vulnerable. We can laugh it off and walk away when someone makes a rude comment or tries to be manipulative. Who are you to judge that he‘s more vulnerable? You don‘t know his back story. Maybe if you were in his shoes you would have ended up being just as vulnerable and unable to draw boundaries. He‘ll learn. But not by telling him what it would look like to have sane boundaries. Telling people to act healthy when they are not is never going to actually make a difference. Giving a shit about them will though.
>>12654931What about hot shower or bath? Does that not sound like it would do any good? Can you just take some ibuprofen? Maybe once the fever is down and the pain is gone you can sleep and give your body some rest to recover. Or you can just keep shitposting and drag it out for two more weeks which you‘ll probably do anyways i guess.