>>562305I know this feel anon.
I've decided I need to be the one who puts in the energy to maintain a relationship (friends). Might not be 'fair' but if the person is cool enough that I want them in my life, it's worth it.
I usually initiate text conversation, usually me who asks 'want to chill' etc.
I don't think this problem necessarily speaks to you or I being weird or unlikable, I think our culture is losing the ability/desire to have meaningful friendships with other men.
Btw I'm aware of how incredibly gay this post reads. I'm a straightfag with a young white gf =D