>>6514428i am the son of a woman who slept with at least 10 men before marriage and who fathered a previous child with a previous man who is not my father. I was born to my mother in her 30's. I was born with heart defects, joint defects, I had to wear a heart monitor as a child, I didn't have a strong puberty and I have been very sickly in my childhood and adult life with many illnesses. I have also suffered from depression and these sicknesses have interrupted my life numerous times at critical phases.
For the sake of your child, please find a healthy woman at a young age who is hopefully a virgin or a low low partner count (no higher than 2 or 3 and hopefully never have had children with another man).
It has not been that great of a life being sick all the time and I have never been able to embrace and cherish what others might call "radiant youth" as wellness and health have always been far away. Be careful who you marry. Don't just be selfish and marry and have kids for the sake of it, think about your choices and the kind of children you want to bring up. Do you want your children to be healthy and powerful or weak and sickly. When you go to help create another being, only a careless or self-centered person would give little to no thought as to the being they are helping to create. If you are going to help create, do so with purpose and fervor.
