>>12787359Well it's hard for me anyway, I don't see how you could approach someone like that.... I think asking for someone's number usually implies that, yes. Why did you ask just before you had to move? Still better to have done it at all, I guess. That's how my relationship is too and I doubt the distance between you two is any greater than ours is, so it can still work
>Where did that come from?I don't know. I often think people like that - people like me - aren't meant to live because in a way that goes against our sense of self-preservation. For example I was bullied and I think that may have contributed to this whole thing, like they used to call me by the feminine version of my name and stuff.... But why might that have lead me to want to be one myself? It must have to do with whatever made me like those people despite the abuse
You didn't really answer the question tho. What do you think of the other kind of people? You don't pity or look down on them? Not at all? Judging from how you see my relationship at least it kind of seems like you do
>They say be careful what you wish for for a reasonMaybe you're right. For one I wouldn't care to have a period. I get why some tranners might like that idea tho - it implies they have the right reproductive organs. It just seems like an inconvenience to me
>I don't want to leave her knowing that it might make her feel awfulAre your parents still... together? I assume they are in some sense if she hasn't looked for another partner already. If not, then why hasn't she? Just too busy? She could maybe get a cat at least. Either way I don't think she expects you to stay with her forever and the fact you're off somewhere happy will undoubtably make her happy too. Just don't become one of those sons who never visits their parents in retirement. I don't think many girls would mind living with them in their old age, especially if they help with the kids. That's better than putting them in a home anyway
