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European, 36 yo, married since 25, 3 kids.
>I find this girl when I’m 21, she’s 20. I’m virgin, she’s too. She goes to church. Few experiences with guys before me.
>Get together. Serious thing. We stay together 4 years.
>We marry. After 2 years, first kid.
>2 more years, second kid.
>1 more year, third kid. We didn’t really want that, but happened.
She’s a completely trad wife. No cheating (I’m sure of it), religious, no tattoos, never get drunk, no smoke, no shit. Has a good work at hospital. She spends her life for family. She still looks good after 3 pregnancies.
She never had a super sex drive, but still we had fun on first years. After first kid, it dropped low. After the second, even lower. After the third… we barely have sex once a year. She’s not looking for it, she never asks me… even when we’re alone at home, she never thinks we could do it. I have to make it happen, and it takes efforts… and I just got to make her satisfied, nothing on her side… she’s totally passive.
I tried in every way, I got in very good shape… I’ve been romantic, funny, surprising, the best I could. Nothing.
I don’t want to cheat. But God, I miss intimacy and passion with someone…
Any tips, guys? After all, I'm living the dream of a blessed family with a good wife... Should I just accept life as it is?
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