>>12387387:( are you happy, anon?
>>12387407I know you're asking Brazil anon, but this hits hard and I wanted to respond. Like you, I tried to leave my friends but failed to find friends I liked, or could get close with. I feel like I'm stuck with them. One of them is introverted and he's very flaky, and the other invites other people when I wanna hang out with JUST HIM. He invites people I could give less than two shits about, and they talk about bullshit that just alienates me.
The best I've done was find a gf and when our relationship ended things got sucky again. I was forced to rekindle my old friendships, but then remembered how they always emotionally blueball me. It's not their fault, its just how they are. But I feel like I'm just wasting my early 20s and I just don't feel close to them, when I really want to. It's eating into my work ethic.
But sorry for the rant. Did your friend's values (partying, drinking) get in the way of your friendship? Did they put effort into stayinf friends with you? Were you close to them?
