>>9504086Don't worry about them. Worry about men(nohomo). Women will not change until men change society, and that requires sons.
Forget about happiness, a successful marriage is one that gives you sons that you can invest in the future. That is how you become an optimist, by investing in the future, and seeing even a small amount of progress.
Apathy, despair, and fatalism are dispelled by having sons and investing in your future.