>>10101116Men generally feel guilt whether they're the ones cheating or the other guy. The women almost always blame the men. I've only ever met one guy that didn't mind banging some other dude's wife and he was a piece of shit. Usually guys have some semblance of guilt, but women usually just blame the sex-starved man or their bfs/husbands instead of feeling guilty.
With men it's like living in a desert and every once in awhile coming across an oasis while on a long dry trip. That oasis is owned by another man, and maybe you'll be thirsty/hungry enough to stop by to drink from the water and eat from the fruit trees. You'll feel bad about it, but at the time you feel you need it more.
With women it's like owning a farm. You have all the crops, chickens, cattle, etc. That you need. However, your neighbor has sweet potatoes and you just have regular potatoes, so you go over and steal their sweet potatoes because you're bored of regular potatoes. You feel this is completely justified because you don't have sweet potatoes and someone should be giving you sweet potatoes or other novel foods.