>>12626847>charisma might play even a bigger roleFor initial attraction, yes. But after that, charisma has almost no value anymore. Ofc it might still work to keep a dysfunctional person locked in an abusive relationship but that is not love in any way. That‘s just manipulation.
>There is no way one would compare online bulli for fun with dominance.Girls might
> people hide and pretend oftenly to get someone attracted to themThat‘s true too. But this facade will not hold up for long. You‘ll find out if it was an act or not quiet fast. What holds up even after years is true similarities accompanied by balancing differences.
>don't really matter as long as one is mostly similar to themThey do matter though. Because they are what usually breaks up relationships if the people involved do not take the opportunity to balance each other out and instead try to find out who‘s right and who‘s wrong.
>how are you dysfunctionalI‘ve never been less dysfunctional in my life as i am rn but that might be a bit of a sad testimony. My biggest disfunctionality has always been my inability to draw boundaries, say no and my desire to heal everyone in my path. I‘m learning to have sane boundaries now so i can love without crashing and burning. How are you dysfunctional?
