>>8163572>can we just be friends for now because im trying to figure things outThat means she just wants to have fun for now to assess the risk of dating you. How will her friends react? What about her parents? Does she think it's worth the risk of losing you as a friend if she does something fucked up or you two just don't click and hurt each other?
These are all things she's thinking about because she's a woman and overthinks everything involving her emotions to try to figure them out fully.
Right now just do what you guys do and don't pressure anything. If you cuddle then watch her body language to try to figure out what she wants. She'll invite you to do more if she wants. You just have to give off the vibe that you're comfortable with waiting for her to give you the go ahead. She doesn't need to be obvious about it and she won't be so you need to be observant. Don't be afraid to ask in a fun and nice way if you think she wants to go further but you're not sure if you're misreading the situation. That way you can avoid making her uncomfortable.
>how tf do i get scars?When you date a girl that you really want to be with and you genuinely love but know that when you're with each other you'll tear each other to shreds with the fire of your passion. When she leaves you out of nowhere just when things were good you'll cry for months from all the things you did with her and all the emotions you shared. Then when she comes back 2 years later you'll let her back in again only to burn it to ashes once again. Lastly you'll try one more time to desperately reignite what you two had even though she's too tired to want to try anymore by taking her to your home town to enjoy a side of you no one else has seen.
How the story ends is you destroying 3 people to have one last heated romp session with each other to not only ensure you burn away what was left of what you once had together.
The ghost will always haunt you every 5 years or so to reopen the wound too.
That's how.
