>>16989748Few things:
1) You will NEVER be first place. Ever. Every single thing that ever happens in that relationship will first be about another mans child.
2) You will NEVER have authority to raise that kid in any shape or fashion. You will end up fighting the kid first, then the mother.
3) You'll most likely have to tolerate another man, who fucked your wife and had a kid with her. This guy will be a part of your life forever now.
You're sounding desperate, bro.
Literally just workout, make money and don't be bashful around chicks. Put yourself out there. If you're good, you'll probably attract the same.