>>16174132anyway so yea, i guess nervousness is another thing but ive grown to hate pming as well
i wonder what makes you comfortable in imageboards instead though, i guess its a bit irrational so you wouldnt really be able to explain it
although i get the same feel too, here im not hesitant about writing whatever i feel like and pushing out text but with instant messaging sometimes i just sit there and im like eh i dont even feel like doing this, again even if i like the person that im talking to, its the medium we're using that makes me gloom, im talking to you one on one here instead right now and i dont get the same feeling at all
idk though maybe thats some kind of placebo thing, it doesnt feel like we're pming because its a public space still, even though we're still practically just having a direct conversation
but eh i guess it doesnt matter because like i said, imageboards are simply better for actually discussing things and will always be, instant messaging makes you a little bit braindead and not be able to say everything that you wouldve liked to say about something, its their inherent design that makes people do so
because it also makes things way more fast-paced from how i feel, like instead of gathering all your talk points into a single post as in with an imageboard, you gradually drop those things bit by bit and the other person youre conversing with can just also start saying whatever at the same time, and if that happens you lose focus and think about their reply instead, so you lose your flow of what you were going on about, just drops the quality of things
for example if you and i were having this same talk in pm instead it wouldve likely been 10 times shorter and therefore way less fun, you know what im saying?
oh its been in an hour and you mightve slept already so good night if you have
