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>Projection is a defense mechanism in which an individual recognizes their unacceptable traits or impulses in someone else to avoid recognizing those traits or impulses in themselves subconsciously
Sigmund Freud's studies has assisted many online arguments, kids and adults alike, however here I get the impression the concept of Projection is applicable given the languishing cries for your Italian "friend". I question if the forlornness may develop into delusions.