>>9367584and as the book I mentioned above
>https://www.amazon.com/Dangerous-Passion-Jealousy-Necessary-Love-ebook/dp/B000FBJHOEA psychological thing can also make you want them, but also in the opposite way. (tho if you keep away from the things in my other post, I do think that its extremely difficult for them to use a psychological framework to get to you)
and finally, the most efficient way of dealing with women is to let go of materialism. Through the bhagavad Gita. Perhaps it is even more efficient than the other tools. But if you are not jealous. And if you dont care about how you are perceived by the outside world, like a loser, or a winner, or someone who is handsome, sexy or has great intellect...these are all ties to the material realm of sorts. You invest so much energy for the material realm, you connect yourself with them, so that if they dont turn out to be positive for you, you suffer.
And this can get pretty metaphysical even. Therefore the Hinduism, I believe that there may even be divine help to combat the thots, as they are part of the other many temptations of maya. And for that, pic related, this version is probably one of the best books on this topic. This, together with genuine dedication, has helped me to overcome hurdles that I couldnt do so before. Its quite great.