>>9523389Nobody can understand a woman (or man) inside a abusive relationship because they themselves cannot understand it.
There is two things we have to look here. First power, this guy (or girl) got such a mental power over this person that he (or she) controls her every action and move. e (or she) have broken down this person to such point that this person no longer respond on his or her own emotion but like a robot just blindly follows.
Then we got fear, and this goes very much related to the power because its power by fear. She knows if she does something wrong, he will do something. She knows if she says something, he will do something. And this something could be everything from killing her to killing someone that she loves. She is absolute fear all the time, of saying something wrong, doing something and so on. She is simply too afraid to leave because he will come after her and punish her if she do.
But all times ain't bad so life can go on and things will be good again. But good things never last long in relationships like this, power by fear is something that you have to maintain. One step at the time it's to grab more and more control of her, and push the limit on how much you can do to her for her fear to be so great that she could jump in front of a train for him.
You have to understand that you are dealing with a abusive psychopath that doesn't feel anything when punching someone (no i am not talking about a small push, but actual beating and strangulation) the one that they call "the love of their life". Take yourself for an instance, would you beat the living crap of the woman of your life? Someone you say you love and respect? No, of course not. Not even when we are -normal- people are blindly in rage we would do something like that, no matter what have happened.
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