>>5129579have you asked why she continues to stay with you if she intends to hurt you? when i was suicidal i isolated from everyone who loved me because i didn’t want them to know. i get that everyone’s different, but i’m pretty sure to some degree that means she’s accepting that there are things in life that she values, and that to a degree she’s actively looking for attention while also looking for reasons to not be accountable for her own decisions