>>20870635The world is full of painful things.
There is a grieving process. It is necessary for humans to go through the grieving process in order to accept painful things.
Grief is nothing to be ashamed of. (If there's anything to be ashamed of, it's when people remain voluntarily ignorant)
But be warned, sometimes there's a trap. tragedy can cause people to get stuck wandering in bittersweet, lukewarm grievance. tragedy - when thinking about reality is so painful people simply don't. Don't fall for the trap.
What i'm saying is: feel bad if you need to. but come back to us when you're ready to not feel bad anymore (and try to return as soon as possible (for your own sake))
in the meantime, have a cup of tea : )
