>>13658214>I find the whole concept infantalizing and degradingI respect your opinion and disagree with it, I find it far more likely that you're not fully aware how badly we've been conditioned by globohomo to see things that way.
I currently live with my gf, I want us to split bills, pursue careers etc. She instead wants to have kids, even though she agrees with splitting costs in the final hour she's always happier if I pay and cleans more often than I do because messiness stresses her, something I can't relate to and find ironic since she's the one who's messier as well.
What I mean is that to me you sound like the perfect woman, driven but not shy of not being just another cog, just consider that some people genuinely want a more "traditional" life and that's as acceptable and healthy. The narrative that all right wingers want to shove women in the kitchen is that, a narrative, don't fall for it and good luck finding the right someone.