>>17523030>If you are not a fast talking, witty charismatic guy that is amazing at small talk then nothing else matters.Not true. In reality, women are VERY perceptive and can tell when you're putting up a front almost immediately, it's instinctive. Your body language says everything.
They can tell when you are making a big deal of things like a blowhard or doing the opposite and trying to pretend you don't care. Men aren't as perceptive of this but even you can notice it if you care enough to pay attention. It's far more prominent in women because they unconsciously test every man they meet as a potential mate.
In reality, most of the time you can win a woman over just by acting casual, asking her questions (women love to talk about themselves), and cracking an occasional joke. That's literally all there is too it.
