>>23804759>but how do you not get caught up in it?just dont say much or anything at all when it comes up
in the beginning it was more of a conscious effort and it will be awkward at first because they are likely going to expect you to 'be you' and fill that role
you will feel that energy shift and it will be uncomfortable
and it does get a bit lonely, cant lie about that but now i'm on my path instead of trying to build everyone else up around me
>All my relationships would implode if I wasn’t putting elbow grease in constantlythat can happen and you dont have to completely abandon them but you dont have to be the one who's making it work all the time
you owe that effort to yourself and your interests too
see who you find along the way
