>>23938782So she is still married to Andrew legally but he is no longer in the picture so he's like an absentee husband? Why are you making this so insanely complicated LOL. You're stacking the decks so hard against this middle-aged woman that I can no longer countenance and marrying her. I would take the other woman with no kids and no baggage, even if she's a liberal and I would do so even if she wasn't nubile and 10/10. Even if she were 8 years older than me and were average looking, I would still choose her over Andrew's ex. Also, if she chose Andrew, that says a lot about her own character, and it says nothing good.
