>>24127737>your group Hey friend you must have me confused with somebody else. I dont hate women at all, not whatsoever. I love women, I think theyre great. I married one and have a bunch of kids. Just because I recognize the differences between us doesn't mean I "hate" women lol.
I get it though, much easier to put everyone into little boxes that you can rationalize and lock up so that you wont have to consider the actual things they are saying. So yeah "my group". Which is?
>>24127738100% I've noticed this. I have also expirmented with it. If I do shake a woman's hand and she tries to give me some "manly, firm" handshake, I can match, exceed, or go limp. Ive found the best version is the limp. If you go hard on her, you are competing with her, placing her as a peer. This is automatically going to lose you respect/attraction. Best bet is to give a little smile/smirk, not unfriendly, maybe even a bit flirty depending on your own status, and let her win.
Or you can crush her hand and be a dick, which is unironic incel behavior imo.
Idk open to other mindsets here, just an interesting little aspect of western society.
