I mean real confidence, not instagram-confidence. I'm talking about an attractive woman who earns enough money to afford a home and a nice car. Tall with perfect posture, but not too tall. Obviously comes from great genetics but doesn't rely on it. Her brothers are over 6"5. Her father/family is extremely wealthy, but again doesn't rely on it. Stone-faced but not bitchy looking. Stoic. Always dresses well and is always immaculately clean, orderly & tidy. Intelligent, can talk about any topic at lengths and is likely to get bored quickly of normal base conversations and small-talk. Never stressed or overwhelmed, always in control of her situation and emotions. Cultured, well-travelled. A good sense of humour, but isn't a jokester. Rather, she is oriented around accomplishing her goals, driven, but isn't obsessed or compensating. She is direct when she communicates and has a natural command over other people, but not in a manipulative way. People genuinely respect her. She doesn't necessarily hate men, but she is simply not impressed by their attempts to "seduce" her. She sees everything a mile off, every cliched line or obvious intentions by every guy she meets. She knows she is a prize and has very high standards, never settles for less yet isn't entitled.

Have you met women like this? I have, and it's terrifying. When you talk to them, you just know by looking in their eyes that they have not, even for a millisecond, considered you to be valuable enough as a potential mate or even a friend. It's like walking by a female tiger who is still satiated by their last meal. They look at you, or through you, and literally do not give a fuck about you, as if you are an ant.

This is coming from a good looking guy, well-groomed, 6ft, 200lbs, workout 5+ times a week and is fairly intelligent.