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Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 03:31:31 No.10246661 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>10246663 >>10246669 >>10246673 >>10246678

Hey /bant/ I'm in need of an advice
I started seeing someone recently, and it's getting serious, how do I feel her I'm still close friends with my ex (3 years)?
I'll answer any questions, especially if it'll help you understand the situation

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 03:32:31 No.10246663 Report

Quoted By: >>10246669

>>10246661
I meant tell her, my brain is fucking up

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:8pmyMUJW Mon 04 May 2020 03:34:53 No.10246669 Report

Quoted By: >>10246674

>>10246661
>>10246663
Gas yourself shlomo

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:10qaFZGE Mon 04 May 2020 03:36:56 No.10246673 Report

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>>10246661
Ask her what she thinks of simps.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 03:37:08 No.10246674 Report

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>>10246669

Wandering Jew

Wandering Jew ID:gA5cvBb1 Mon 04 May 2020 03:38:38 No.10246678 Report

Quoted By: >>10246683

>>10246661
Just be honest with her. If you're not romantically involved with your ex, and you're transparent about it, she should understand.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 03:41:07 No.10246683 Report

Quoted By: >>10246692

>>10246678
I'm afraid she wouldn't, my ex and I mostly share music, movies (tell each other about good ones) and help each other compose but it's scary when someone tells you they are still in touch with their ex, I'm trying to figure out how to hurt her the least about it

Wandering Jew

Wandering Jew ID:gA5cvBb1 Mon 04 May 2020 03:44:57 No.10246692 Report

Quoted By: >>10246701

>>10246683
The fact that you're hiding it from her is already bad enough, even if you're not doing anything with her. There's really no other option in the long-run, as she's bound to find out eventually.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 03:50:52 No.10246701 Report

Quoted By: >>10246707

>>10246692
I'm not hiding it, it never came up. I never even meet my ex in person, and I already hinted we were good friends. She haven't met my friends yet (newgirl)

Wandering Jew

Wandering Jew ID:gA5cvBb1 Mon 04 May 2020 03:54:31 No.10246707 Report

Quoted By: >>10246710

>>10246701
>I already hinted we were good friends.
Then it shouldn't be a problem to tell her the rest, if she knows to some extent already.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 03:56:55 No.10246710 Report

Quoted By: >>10246728 >>10246743

>>10246707
She knows we were good friends before and during the relationship, the only things I didn't explain is why we broke up and the outcome which is that we stayed in touch

Wandering Jew

Wandering Jew ID:gA5cvBb1 Mon 04 May 2020 04:02:30 No.10246728 Report

Quoted By: >>10246736

>>10246710
Well, in any case, that's my advice. Just think of a way to lighten the blow somewhat when you tell her.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 04:05:08 No.10246736 Report

Quoted By: >>10246752

>>10246728
Thanks bro, have some milk

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9VvY4hGz Mon 04 May 2020 04:06:35 No.10246743 Report

Quoted By: >>10246761

>>10246710
Just tell her something along the lines of “yeah, we were dating but we broke up and stayed friends, we don’t really see eachother in person much. We only end up being friends due to shared interest” work that into a convo and you should do well, just never try to hide it or what it do with the other girl and tell current girl that she’s free to check messages and everything if she’s wants. Don’t come out of nowhere to say it either or you seem weird

Wandering Jew

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Wandering Jew ID:gA5cvBb1 Mon 04 May 2020 04:08:05 No.10246752 Report

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>>10246736
Lol. Thanks, and good luck.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1BWnK/Qp Mon 04 May 2020 04:09:11 No.10246761 Report

Quoted By: >>10246837

>>10246743
I like that quote, I'm definitely taking inspiration from that to what I'll say, thanks anon

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9VvY4hGz Mon 04 May 2020 04:33:49 No.10246837 Report

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>>10246761
You’re welcome rabbi

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