dear /bant/, please help me understand this.

If you want to know someone, you must make contact with them, but by making contact with a stranger, you're most often seen as a creep. To make contact with a stranger whom you've made a profile of, you're seen as a stalker.

How does one make contact with other humanoids? Please humor me, I'm confused.

Sincere: one who finds the corona quarantine as normalmode since six years due to (newly identified) antisocial personality traits.