I have no role models. My father is an alcoholic who lives in my grandparents basement. My stepfather is a bible thumping cuckhold. If /pol was my dad what advice would you give me.

>21 y/o live alone and pay for community college out of pocket
>Work full time
>Not a virgin but It sure as fuck hasnt been easy

I just want to be a fucking man. I don't want to end up like my parents or my brother (Huge cuck, and hes not even a manlet like me). Im not afraid of work, and Ill do what it takes. I just cant end up pic related.