>>103726304. A relationship will not make you happy
At best a relationship is a crisis that can be managed on an ongoing basis.
There are potential payoffs. If your partner has a high sex drive (there is a major chance she won't) you will get frequent sex.
Also drama and emotional stimulation do keep off boredom.
However, this will not give you the deep sense of happiness that men are capable.
Look at the great men of history, who had access to as much prime pussy as they wanted.
What did they do? Did they stay at home hugging women on a couch?
No, they went out and challenged themselves.
If there was nothing in their environment to conquer, they went out and found something to conquer.
They sailed the world to another continent, they climbed a mountain, they built a house. They did something hard, they failed many times, then eventually they succeeded.
This is what creates a sense of happiness for a man. Facing something difficult, a real challenge, and coming out on top. Their is added value if you do something that is dangerous.
You don't need to believe me. Just try it. Challenge yourself to do something difficult, or something with a slight element of danger, something that takes real persistence to achieve, and see how you feel afterwards.
That feeling is the best feeling in the world. Once you have felt it, nothing else will compare.
However, in the era of helicopter parents and #staysafe social messaging, young men are actively discouraged from doing anything that results in genuine fulfilment.
Instead they sit at home engaged in zero risk activities like vidya, and projecting their need for happiness into the area of their life where they sense the greatest lack - pussy and relationships.
This is a tragedy of epic proportions. That young men sit wasting away achieving nothing, thinking they are missing out on something that doesn't even exist while actually missing out on something that does.
