>>10374069ever noticed how most of the people pushing bdsm are women? wonder why that is?
its because bdsm is a way women get to bring power dynamics out in the open and control them more overtly.
what you and most men seem to miss, is that the lower a women goes sexually, the more she submits sexually, the more dominant she actually is. again like I said before its topping from the bottom.
because women don't dominate overtly, they almost always do it covertly. and while a man is in a supposedly dominant position whereby the woman is allowing him to slap her around, piss in her mouth etc, he's thinking to himself, holy shit, I'm the man, I'm the daddy, this bitch is under my thumb. when in reality, she wants him to think that, and she's lured him into that false sense of security because thats how she hits him right in his sweet spot and controls + manipulates him
so I would argue that you have it backwards. sadomasochism is just an extension and a function of the power dynamics at play. its just an expression of the power flow, and a means to direct it.
