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I'm not a loser, and I don't have complete social autism. People really like me once they get to know me, but that only happens once I interact with them a few times around other friends. This basically means I'm dependent on my friends to meet girls, and that means that I can't make moves on them once we're familiar, because it would have ramifications throughout my social life. (Shitting where I eat, so to speak.)
I can't approach women at work because that's a good way to get fired. I can't approach women I don't know very well, because then I'm a douche. This basically means getting to know a woman in a setting which doesn't involve my other friends, and then making my move. I can only think of one woman I've ever known which has fit that last category, and she's a special case.
I'm not a permavirgin; I've had sex twice. But both times were after parties, and the woman came on to me. I have no idea how to proceed with someone that I could be legitimately interested in.
I blame not getting any practice in high school personally.
