>>10670313Here's the thing. If you're a virgin who's only ever gotten off to masturbating to porn and fantasy, then once you get past a certain age, you've conditioned yourself to only be able to be aroused by that. Actual sex is going to be a completely alien experience to you and won't even turn you on. Its unlikely you'll be able to get it up.
So you're not actually missing out on anything anymore. Just quit porn because its a complete illusion and don't even bother masturbating anymore. And you can stop worrying about not getting laid, because it doesn't even matter. Any virgin's idea of sex is completely unrealistic.
But once you've been a virgin for so long sex is basically irrelevant to you. I'm not saying give up on ever finding someone or getting laid, but you can stop worrying about it trying so much. Sure, it may still be hard on your self esteem but there's nothing you're actually missing out on, you're just not the sort of person who has sex. You have to give up porn though.
