It's always been like this. I was born with a large vagina with loose, somewhat everted labia. But it's not because I'm promiscuous and had it loosened up from too much sexual intercourse. This term you people use - roastie - is highly offensive to women like me. The thought of a man assuming I'm a roastie terrifies me. Why are you people spreading these kinds of messages? Please consider the kind of oppression you are perpetuating by saying things like this online. It's the least you could do. I am not ashamed of my big vagina.