>>1079611not even that, either go out and get a social life/some kind of hobby where you can meet girls or go on instagram/facebook if you're a sperg at breaking the ice with girls
what I would do is go to some local fb group/site related to my hobby (in my case martial arts) and message the chicks who go to the same dojo as I do, had success with that, thing with facebook/insta is you can evaluate them a little bit and see what kind of personality they could have, look for any possible redflags (like super trashy photos, constantly taking drugs, things which might cause them to not "click" well with you, etc. etc.) before you even try to talk to them
it worked for me, but I'm not promising it'll work for you since I don't know you and I've spent years of mastering how to hide my powerlevel among normies and I don't know how much of a sperg you are, we're on 4chin after all
tl;dr:
don't use tinder, either stop being a sperg and get a life or use facebook/instagram, if you can't be a normie act like one