>>10989805/pol/ may not like to hear this, but it's been my experience: because intelligent men stop trying, if they ever try at all. Chads and men with more CHR than INT have no problem hitting on women, and this appeals to thots, but not to average-tier women who aren't whores. All the smart guys I've met who have similar hobbies to me have been both chronic under-achievers and extremely shy, expecting me to make all the moves. Obviously, the later is the fault of feminist bullshit that makes men terrified of women out of fear of being called a creep or a rapist, and the former is to a degree as well, given how society treats men as second-class citizens. The thing is, once women get older, chad stops hitting on them while the more intelligent but under-achieving men remain silent as before. Society is so fucked that to get a quality man, you have to find him and then help work at undoing the horrible shit said society has done to his brain and sense of self-worth. You have to be the always supportive and loving wife, and constantly encourage him to not be ashamed of himself so he stops being an under-achiever and socially awkward.
Women who have been riding the cock-carousel their whole lives have no clue what to do when they're no longer being hit on by Chad. The rest of us have long since found a husband and, hopefully, helped undo the horrible conditioning done to him by cucked, leftist western society. Women who are used to a lot of attention from men have absurd standards and absolutely none of the patience or caring it takes to help pull the inner strength out of a man who has been beaten-down by society, when deep down, along with raising children, being an emotional bulwark for your husband is the most fulfilling thing a woman can do with her life.
It's a faggy feminist meme that "behind every great man is a great woman" in the way it's commonly used, but it's not totally untrue. Your wife should be your sounding board and your safe harbor.