>>11062612with the absolute commodification of every aspect of gender, sexuality and identity
no you are not finished
you just need to make some money
find your niche
then buy all the services you require to pretend to be that and offer yourself up in this competition that involves millions of people perceiving each other on the edges of perception
the only thing that keeps you back is either economic marginalization, which would entitle you to help by society or such esteemed probono hospitals as the Hasbro Child Hospital - Transgender Wing
or you are too lazy to be a productive cog in this machine to earn all the money you need for that
it's a decision OP
to improve your status with women, acquire power and influence and show it
to improve your life and find someone who you can cooperate with, get away from the high sexual peer pressure environment, pick a hobby where you meet sane people, preferably where you do and build shit
repeat and pick up as many hobbies until you have a rich social life full of people that you meet in your daily life as well as deeply bonding with others
if you are a somewhat sane person, you will drastically increase your chances to find someone who is compatible with you