>>11066193No, you just have to plunge right in, even if you embarrass yourself at first, just say whatever comes to you. That's how you learn. For example, have you ever seen a pretty fifty year old? I've seen a few pretty thirty year olds which in my humble opinion is the best age for a woman to have, but also a relatively pretty forty year old, but none who were fifty. I wonder why that is, is it impossible at that age or are they just rarer than unicorns?