>>11138996if you are white, NO.
Look, I'm going to level with you. I'm married a cutie pie redhead, who has NO sex drive. I wrestled with it for a long time before proposing to her. I worried that maybe it was me. It's not. I had to debate if I could handle a marriage where I may not have sex for over a month at a time. But she wants kids, and I want kids, and sex really isn't everything anyway. Plus, I can still sneak away and beat it if needed, though I have been way better about not using porn since getting married.
The key is to find a good girl who makes you be a better man. You also have to want to be a better man.
I was lost for several years. Very self-conscious. Felt like I would never get married. Thought that it was all too expensive.
Learned to say "no", and be more stoic. Women start noticing. Start rejecting women who are clearly thots, I also never wasted my time with them, I was afraid of them. I'm successful because I am cheap and make a decent salary (95k in a low cost of living state). I was able to buy my home outright in 5 years because I stayed home and didn't do much. But the result is that now I am financially way ahead of everyone else my age.
Now I get to have kids after starting a healthy investment account. I love my wife, she loves me. I trust her, and I know that a lot of other men have said those same words, but I vetted her carefully. I asked hard questions, she passed my tests, I did all that I could, and I am very satisfied with my choice.
Do we fuck often, no, but if you can't form a relationship without sex all the time, then you're already setting yourself up to fail.
