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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 10:55:51 No.11184032 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>11184035 >>11184040 >>11184044 >>11184048 >>11184051 >>11184052 >>11184053 >>11184054 >>11184058 >>11184065 >>11184070 >>11184073 >>11184075 >>11184082 >>11184483 >>11185739

Hey guys, can you tell me how to progress things when talking to a woman?

The only times I've really been with women are when i've straight up asked if they want to fuck on dating apps but I have no idea how you're supposed to move on from polite conversation in person and no one ever explained this to me

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:01:12 No.11184033 Report

Quoted By: >>11184034

Just have sex

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:02:25 No.11184034 Report

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>>11184033
Excellent response, very original and cool.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:10:50 No.11184035 Report

Quoted By: >>11184036 >>11184079

>>11184032

want nothing from them and be your best non-spergy self. They'll come to you. Go to them a little. They pull back, you pull back, they come forward etc. Its a dance

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:12:37 No.11184036 Report

Quoted By: >>11184037 >>11184072

>>11184035
I get the non-spergy and I manage to avoid sperging but nothing in person goes anywhere.

The rest of your comment makes no sense

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:18:04 No.11184037 Report

Quoted By: >>11184038 >>11184039 >>11184050

>>11184036

good. if it made sense for you, you'd already know how to do it.

Its about your level of need and attention to them. Think about a guy whos like OMG IM IN LOOOOOOVE WITH YOU. Girls run for the hills.

Obviously you can't be like "I don't give a shit about you." So find the middle ground and constantly readjust.

In your head, don't need anything from them, because they can smell that shit. When she starts wanting you, want her back a little. Then she will pull her attention away a little bit. Then you pull back a little too and she'll come back It's like a waltz.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:21:54 No.11184038 Report

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>>11184037
sounds exhausting.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:22:06 No.11184039 Report

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>>11184037
This sounds way too complicated, also I don't want to risk getting metoo'd if i make a wrong step

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:24:40 No.11184040 Report

Quoted By: >>11184042 >>11184045

>>11184032
Basically you want to move from the conversation being "polite" to having it be flirtatious. Humor is always good, but I'm not the best at it. Alcohol is always helpful. As the other poster said, don't be too needy and/or eager. I once had a girl slept with straight up tell me that I had seemed too interested the first time we met and it had been a turn off for her

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:26:04 No.11184041 Report

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>>11184038
Don't invest too much energy into it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:26:34 No.11184042 Report

Quoted By: >>11184046 >>11184047 >>11184056 >>11184061

>>11184040
Yeah but what even is flirting? Like what's the line between flirting and sexual harrassment? I'm not getting arressted over this.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:26:36 No.11184043 Report

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>>11184039
Stay away from liberal whores, problem solved.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:26:56 No.11184044 Report

Quoted By: >>11184055

>>11184032
Just b urself bro

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:27:37 No.11184045 Report

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>>11184038
It's actually quite fun once you get the hang of it.

>>11184039
Most women are gonna Metoo you. If its at work, you very well could. I nearly did when I was an idiot.

>>11184040
Exactly.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:28:27 No.11184046 Report

Quoted By: >>11184057

>>11184042
If you're an immigrant it's flirting. If you're a native white Briton it's sexual harassment or verbal rape.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:28:51 No.11184047 Report

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>>11184042
It's only harassment if they don't like it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:29:08 No.11184048 Report

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>>11184032
don't talk about politics
just give her attention for about a week

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:30:11 No.11184049 Report

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Women aren’t worth it.

The only reason you’re even talking to her is because your monkey brain thinks that maybe it will lead to your penis in her.

Just jack off (without porn, that shit is horrible for you) and do something you’d rather do than listen to a roastie tell you about her cat and houseplants

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:32:41 No.11184050 Report

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>>11184037
That makes it sound fun. I wish I learned to waltz.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:33:32 No.11184051 Report

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>>11184032
I don't know if this will apply to western women but it definitely worked for me.
Try to be funny and it's fine to get out of your comfort zone. Basically create the mood of "i want to spend more time with that guy"

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:33:34 No.11184052 Report

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>>11184032
OP, check out "Mode One" audiobook by Alan Roger Currie. Tells you how and why you should bring up sex ASAP with women. Women don't want you to know that it's okay to talk about sex right away. IT IS. Otherwise they do this "I have to get to know you first". That's a total fucking lie. Don't buy it. My own advice: When you invite women back to your place you definitely want to tell them the plan is to have sex BEFORE you bring them.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:33:39 No.11184053 Report

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>>11184032
It's like a video game.

Test her with suggestive (but not obvious) comments, and see how she reacts.

You can talk about a romantic memory, and if she reacts you'll know she's into romantic stuff.

If you feel it's appropriate, you can talk about relationships, how you feel in whatever situation, your past experiences, stuff like that.

Again, the key is to see to what she reacts, that'll let you know what she's into.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:33:49 No.11184054 Report

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>>11184032
>no one ever explained this to me

Search for Todd V on YouTube. He will tell you everything you need to know about escalation in easy, logical steps. You can thank me later. That man will change your life!

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:34:02 No.11184055 Report

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>>11184044
Not an answer.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:34:13 No.11184056 Report

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>>11184042
Remember women like men too. Any if you ever get nervous, remember she's probably nervous too and you can't see it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:34:34 No.11184057 Report

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>>11184046
Boring bait.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:34:49 No.11184058 Report

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>>11184032

If it makes you feel better, I think it's experience for most guys. You start noticing Indicators of Interest from women when you come across interested women and that in turn gives you like a 6th sense of when any women is interested in you in the future. I can pretty much tell after spending a few hours with a girl if she at some point wants to hook up with me if not that night than another.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:37:24 No.11184059 Report

Quoted By: >>11184060 >>11184063

>wanting to stick your dick into a diseased hole in a creature that cannot feel empathy
>a hole that other men have jizzed in many times before you

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:40:31 No.11184060 Report

Quoted By: >>11184062

>>11184059
Boring bait.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:40:50 No.11184061 Report

Quoted By: >>11184064

>>11184042
>what's the line between sexual harassment and flirting?
As the other posters have said, it's going to depend on how the woman feels about it. If she likes it, it's good, but if not, could be trouble. You need to read her, see if she seems interested/flattered or if it seems to anoy or bother her.
If you're talking to a girl from work, I'd be extra cautious unless it's quite clear she's attracted to you. If it's someone you met at the bar, you can probably be a little more forward. Still try and read her, if she looks like she isn't enjoying it, back off

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:41:19 No.11184062 Report

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>>11184060
Nah, I’m trying to help you here dude.

Women are a waste of your time and energy.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:41:46 No.11184063 Report

Quoted By: >>11184066

>>11184059

Microchimerism will ensure your genetic material will continue forward and your prescience on this Earth wasn't merely a skeleton and a few sticky rags.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:42:49 No.11184064 Report

Quoted By: >>11184080

>>11184061
But how do i know if she likes it ir is just being polite?

I have it as a rule to not date women I work with, you don't poke the payroll.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:46:27 No.11184065 Report

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>>11184032
Attraction, Seduction, Comfort OP.
If they're talking to you attentively and not just like "Yeah, lol, no, ah yeah" etc. you have their attraction. Next you slowly increase the bants and stories etc to make them seduced. I usually lead into stories about previous sexual situations while increasing physical interaction, but it's not entirely necessary. Sometimes all you need to do to get into that phase is to just make a sex joke or something too. Though if you don't have any humour, don't do this. Next, you want her to feel comfortable going home with you, depending on the level of seduction, you may need to ask her on a date and then close the deal another time, if she's really seduced then you'll need to make some kind of excuse for her.

t. I used to be a pickup artist, not the memey kind.

A lot of stuff you read online and in books from the community is bullshit, but some of the core stuff is what actually works. And it's not really techniques etc, it's just being able to read the flow of the situation and take advantage of it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:48:00 No.11184066 Report

Quoted By: >>11184067

>>11184063
Wanting to get your monkey goo inside some whore to satisfy your primitive urges makes you on par with subhuman, animal-level savages.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:53:22 No.11184067 Report

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>>11184066

Ooga Booga

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:56:20 No.11184068 Report

Quoted By: >>11184069 >>11184081

You have to be smooth. Say something like: I think pickles suck, don't you? Speaking of sucking pickles what are you doing tonight?

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 11:59:16 No.11184069 Report

Quoted By: >>11184076

>>11184068
Lame.

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:02:44 No.11184070 Report

Quoted By: >>11184071

>>11184032
>talking to a woman
Just skip that step

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:03:56 No.11184071 Report

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>>11184070
What about consensual rape? Most women have a rape fetish. Just sign some papers first and it should be fine.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:04:01 No.11184072 Report

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>>11184036
Could be that you were with women that weren't a good match. When it's not a good match everything seems forced and it doesn't go anywhere.
Anyway do little plays with them, compliment them sometimes, do the opposite other times in a joking way, use excuses to touch them, etc... Always remember that it's better to try too much than try too little.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:06:39 No.11184073 Report

Quoted By: >>11184074

>>11184032
not politics

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:09:11 No.11184074 Report

Quoted By:

>>11184073
Deal with it.>>11184073

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:15:52 No.11184075 Report

Quoted By:

>>11184032
wrong board
dress better
find a way to become more confident without being an asshole

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:22:26 No.11184076 Report

Quoted By: >>11184077 >>11184078

>>11184069
It's worked for me many times

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:24:22 No.11184077 Report

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>>11184076
If that worked, I am stunned at how retarded normies are.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:29:22 No.11184078 Report

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>>11184076
lol how is that possible it is such a retarded line

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:34:31 No.11184079 Report

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>>11184035
Sounds gay

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:39:39 No.11184080 Report

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>>11184064
If it weren’t for coworkers I don’t think I’d ever get laid

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:40:22 No.11184081 Report

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>>11184068

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Anonymous Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:45:06 No.11184082 Report

Quoted By: >>11184116

>>11184032
You need to learn some chat up lines, heres a few.

1. SIT ON MY FACE

2. HOW MUCH?

3. ITS LATE, YOU'LL DO.

4. IS THAT A LADDER ON YOU TIGHTS OR A STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN? OH IT'S A LADDER, NVM, WILL YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME?

5. DESPITE BEING 13%...

You could of course tell her about your interests and how you are part of an elite group of spackers waging war against the left from their computer by calling faggots, faggots. Explain to her the weapons used in this war, pictures of frog, repeating numbers, more pictures of frogs, autism.

Explain that due to the fact you have devoted your life to this fight, you are unemployed, have no friends, smell, and are poor. Then give her a bowl of eggs as an offering, and ask if she wants the ole 'lickarino' downstairs. Make sure to wink and also pick your nose clean to demonstrate commitment to 'hygiene'.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:pAt7/tys Sun 30 Aug 2020 12:55:49 No.11184116 Report

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>>11184082

>>275072110
>Yeah but what even is flirting?

Its bullshitting thats what it is, instead of drooling and going 'nice tits luv, fancy a shag?' You have to say bollocks like 'you look nice' and then listen to her talk/whinge while you grit your teeth and hide your hardon, then after shes drunk enough, she might mistake your ghastly face for a semi attractive blur, and let you drive her home and stick your willy in her ear... Or something i dunno, then 9 months later a baby is born and you live in a house with a white picket fence, smoke a pipe, read newspapers, and go to work carrying a briefcase.

All of this is 100% what happen. Also when you become a dad, you have to clap when dancing, i do not know why.

Anonymous !!PZi8LV1CNRo

Anonymous !!PZi8LV1CNRo ID:Cv3d7jOO Sun 30 Aug 2020 14:11:59 No.11184483 Report

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>>11184032
As half of the random replies below Amazon questions tend to say
I would not know I can't help you have a nice day!

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Anonymous ID:aNT9MzKh Sun 30 Aug 2020 18:10:54 No.11185739 Report

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>>11184032
real social dynamics

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