>>11199532I'm not saying that you should hurt other people, but you surely should be able to, you being able to be aggressive is different from being aggressive. So not hurting others does not make you weak, sure, but being unable to do that when you need does.
And when do you need to aggressive? I say that's when not being aggressive will mean in you being humiliated, assaulted or even killed. Because nobody would shame a women for being aggressive, if she killed a men trying to rape her. There is a clear difference when hurt other people is ok or not ok, that is if you are the agressor or the victim. There is plenty of aggressors ou there like the dude in op's video, it's very clear that what he is doing is wrong, what is also very clear it's that the guy being beaten should try to resit and hurt him. Would you say to that guy that is wrong to hurt other people?
Not being able to stand up for yourself is not normal, taking it all silently is not only bad for what you want it's also bad for your mental health.
