>>11211086I think of workplace conversations I have with women (the only place I would since I do not socialize) and they fall into three categories - 1) I'm parrying with some who think they're funny as they dab on whatever quirk or quality of mine happens to pop into their head, 2) some shit that must involve her shoving her phone in my face to look at something important to her that she thinks must necessarily be important to others or 3) social events and drinking she has accomplished.
Ironically, the only substantive conversations I have at work with women are with my supervisor, who with her husband are strongly pro-Trump (she's a lousy supervisor though, but I keep that to myself because it doesn't matter all that much where we work and my Mother adores her for some reason), and a qt Asian engineer who shares a common interest with me in fragrances who, despite her obvious appeal, has taught me over the years I have known her never to take and Asian chick as a wife or even a gf.
Men are totally different. They are all individuals, and I develop a separate rapport with each one based on common interests and dispositions. All have some identifiable perspective on life and that view can be very useful in looking at things from different angles and tying that to my own body of knowledge.
Bottom line is that interacting with men will improve your life if you want it to. For women, even the best of them, all it does is kill time; I might as well be watching TV.