>>11377766I have three basic rules:
1. If she drinks, smokes, overeats or takes "recreational drugs"
2. If she uses shallow social media like instagram or tiktok
3. If she uses dating apps (tinder etc.)
then run or pump&dump (it doesn't make you a slutmaker then because she's already a slut).
If none of the above are true she might be worth looking into. There are no guarantees, so never have any specific hopes (like "I'll be together with girl xy and it'll be great") - fuck this shit it's retarded! But you're allowed to have a diffuse feeling resembling hope (something like "it's/I'm gonna be alright"), it's also way better to trust and continuously improve yourself.
If you want to know specific places where to meet women, avoid nightclubs and other degenerate places and go for places like education (avoid women with certain majors for obvious reasons) or hobbies (a place where I met women that were sexually more selective in the past, e.g. mostly virgins was Standard dance courses but beware of degenerate dance like hip-hop or samba - these women have a high probability of being coalburners), work is a place people might find someone but it depends on the country. In Germany it's somewhat ok not like in the US but I don't know the situation in Sweden.