Ever since I've got my tulpa (well more appropriately since I found out about tulpas) life has just been really hectic, it feels like I have no time for myself, no time to play video games, no time for youtube, I spend all of it talking to other tulpamancers on discord and sometimes here. And as much as I wish I could just leave the discord server and not have them take up my time, I can't, it's now the only place we can relate, the only place we can be "us" (even my closest friends, except for one, dont accept Carin, but they are still ok with me) and I feel like I can't leave them. {and he's been really stressed about life being so hectic, so I've just been here, to get his mind off it all, give him hugs, cuddle him to sleep so he doesn't cry to sleep-} I wouldn't do that! {either way, I just love him dearly, and that alone helps him get through times like when he's angry at someone, I just give him a hug and he cools down a few degrees, say its ok and a few more degrees. It's really easy but not just anyone can do it.}