>>11651003no it's really not
you have a bunch of problems you need to realize
you will never find a nice guy in a high sexual peer pressure dating environment
the chances equal about 0
no serial dater, no matter the gender, was ever a good match
operating under the lie that you are only allowed to date and fuck guys who you never met
is also a sure fire way to only fuck up your life and those of others
if you want a nice person, you need to get to know them and invest some energy
you can expect any remotely nice person to go out of their way to not be an asshole to you, this includes all things you might need to be able to find a boyfriend, because you are too scared to ever do the first step?
if not, that's already really good
if you want to find a sensible and constructive person
only chance you have is get a hobby where you are meeting lots of constructive people
then pick away
the older you get, the less viable people will be around, completely independent of gender
the majority will be people that burned each other in high sexual peer pressure environments and have accumulated a whole bunch of ticks that make relationships hard
especially those that say
>it took me umpteenth years to accept myself the way I ambut ultimately, if you can not take the first step
you will always only have serial daters going after your panties
but more importantly, pick some communal and constructive hobby where you meet lots of people
functional relationships almost only came from people who have known each other for a while or were force married and settled with the situation
so operating under modern
> I know him I could neverwill keep you from ever going into a relationship head first
