You aren't successful with women because you don't have confidence. I don't mean the confidence, talking to them normally, confidence, I mean the, I AM GOD, staring down SWAT with a snapped pool cue in hand while bystanders watch and recoil because you are the Presence and the Power, confidence. Women can sense that, and it gets them wet. Men can sense it too, and most will defer to that level of, not self-control, but self-conquest. Yakub did nothing wrong, that is all.