I can't tell if I like this girl. 25 yr old autist btw.
So long story short, I met her at a job (have another one now). Basically I meet all the criteria to liking her except I don't actually get those "butterflies" around her. It might also be because I just got use to talking with her. Like I am obsessed with her and we've been friends for months, but for some off reason, I can't actually tell.

It's more like I am very emotionally attached to her (like extremely), but I can't tell if I am sexually attracted to her (she is pretty, but I don't quite feel the "desire" to say kiss her. Actually, feels close to 0. It's the same with every girl I've ever met by the way. I am 100% straight fyi.. it just seems like my libido died in general. I have good health so maybe it's mental health related as my brain got turned to mush by being emotionally exhausted from work and bad shit in general).

I can't tell if I should tell her so we can possibly grow this relationship because I don't want to end up causing her harm.