...I am still khhv, and I officially give up.

When I turned 21, 1 year ago, I have decided to do everything in my power to escape inceldom. I am the last person in my family to remain single virgin. I wanted to have a girlfriend since age 11-12, but I did not attempt to date, in hope someone would approach me, like they did to most of my male school mates. I considered myself volcel / mentalcel up until today.

This is what I've done:

>Therapist, SSRI for 8 months
>700 - 800 EU for new wardrobe
>Worked out 4-6 times a week at home
>Tinder, Badoo, Bumble for ~7 months (paid once)
>Got proffesional haircut every 3 weeks
>Approached number of times, and via phone (most rejected immediately)
>Joined food delivery (people said it's a good way of meeting people)
>Tried to have an open attitude, be out from my shell, and friendly
>Got a puppy

Results

>2 phone numbers (1 was fake / mistyped), 0 dates, still khhv
>19 matches on tinder during 7 month period (5 replied, 2 numbers, later ghosted)
>less anxiety from SSRI
>2 new friends (both guys)
>Good dog
>Acceptance that I'm an incel