I've been with my current boyfriend for over two years and hes the perfect gentleman; buys me expensive gifts, eager to plan our future together and is always trying his best to make me happy. The problem is that I am no longer satisfied with his skinny white pp. Is it wrong of me to end things with him and pursue my darker and more sensual co-worker. I know this all sounds shallow but I do believe that sexual intimacy and chemistry are just as important as an emotional bond.