>>12347191speaking as a married person the baseline is someone who you can mutually respect and feel attraction for enough to stay faithful to them and vice versa
beyond that, everyone has their flaws, but my personal deal breaker is the kind of sociopathic head game stuff social media reinforces girls to think is empowering nowadays
my wife doesn't do shit like that she's just cripplingly anxious but that's the kind of damage you can expect
almost nobody goes through life without accumulating some kind of suffering