Why do men always get obsessed with me so easily? I have a lot of friends that are almost uncontrollably in love with me. I don't want this kind of attention and I don't want to leave a trail of broken hearts behind me or be a tease. I just want to be a loving and affectionate and attentive friend, more like a little sister than anything, but I'm cursed with having new people fall for me every other week.